第93章:失败剧集!

你好!在本周的播客剧集中,我们承认并重新认识到我们最大,最昂贵的失败。

您可以在博客或博客上流下剧集iTunes.,Spotify.,谷歌游戏,旋转,口袋里投, 和缝纫机。你可以找到播客帖子存档在这里

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我们提到第42集埃尔西买错了房子还有,你可以听到埃尔西在地板上的灾难第19集。

埃尔希提到萤火虫车道。

- 这一周是艾玛上周(她的产假开始!)。我们将在下周举行阵亡将士纪念日,然后我将在没有艾玛(以及许多客人)的夏季集。它应该很有趣!

非常感谢本周的赞助商!一定要查看来自的优惠更好的力,Juneshine.,美丽的函数现代生育率。如果您要找过去的赞助商,您可以找到所有当前的链接/代码这个页面

集93年成绩单

埃尔西:你正在收听的是《美丽的一团》播客,我们收到了很多关于失CSGO雷电竞败的请求,但对我们来说,失败只是DIY中很正常的一部分。这么多年过去了,我们已经习惯了,我们的大脑会立刻抹去不好的记忆。一个项目做两次甚至五次就成了我们的第二天性。不管怎样,尽管如此,我们还是觉得做一集来分享我们最严重的错误和最昂贵的错误会很有趣。让我们做它。

艾玛:对,每个人都想看一集失败的剧集,告诉我们你所有的失败,我们很想这样做。但我和埃尔西谈过,我们不记得了。我想,我们有很多很多。我只是不喜欢把它们写下来或记录下来。这不是我那晚在日记里写的。所以我不记得了或者我把它看成是其中的一个步骤。

埃尔西:我的理论是,这是一种生存本能,因为,你知道,diy、装修、翻新,做到一半的时候会有点沮丧,到最后就会非常兴奋。一开始很令人兴奋。困难和无聊在中间,刺激在结尾。你知道,我们最后记录的大部分都是结局。所以,是的,我的大脑不会记住所有不成功的事情,或者我必须重做的事情,甚至是糟糕的事情。我们真的得绞尽脑汁才能找到这些失败的案例。但我们找到了最好的。这一集里有一些很糟糕的。

埃玛:是的,有一些不错的。而且大部分都是很贵的,我觉得那才是人们想听的。时间是我们浪费金钱还是哭泣。好吧,给你。

埃尔西:哦,我们哭了好多次。

艾玛:哦,是的。(笑)

Elsie:好的,我刚开始只是为了好玩。这是关于我最近做的一个梦。这就像上周一样。在过去的六个月里,我一直在做最伟大的梦,更生动,更有趣。就像过去一样,我的梦总是重复的,我童年的某些部分等等。好吧,不是每个人都需要听这些,但最近我的梦想真的很不同,真的很激动人心。这个很好。我梦见我在电视节目《单身汉》中作为选手,和其他美女竞争,为了《单身汉》,这是我永远不会做的事。首先,我知道我快40了,但即使在我25岁的时候,我也不会上这个节目,因为我一直就像一个灵巧的十字绣编织……

艾玛:奶奶。

elsie:鳄鱼穿,你知道,过早地所有这些东西。这一直是我。我从来没有像,我不知道,就像无论如何我如何看待参赛者。我知道有点像参赛者的多样性,但是,我仍然不认为我完全不适合他们。所以,无论如何,在我的梦想中,我在游泳池里,顺便说一句,在一个与所有其他女人的比基尼...

艾玛:到目前为止,这简直是一场噩梦。(笑)

elsie:它有点。而且我就像哦,我不应该在这里。我喜欢我知道我不对此。这不适合我。这不是我想做的。我模糊地在我的梦中觉得,我含糊不愿认识我已经结婚并有孩子,但是就像所有人都没有在它的最前沿 - 无论如何。所以生产者过来并与我谈过。我们看着这展示了一个像图案的一点,但不是 - 我不记得这一刻所谓的。

埃玛:哦,我还没看过呢。就像在幕后给你看一样吗?

埃尔西:是的,但那是假的。这是一场戏剧。有好几季都是这样。杰里米有一次拍性爱戏的时候放了一首歌。这是可怕的。

艾玛:哦,那很酷。

埃尔西:不管怎么说,这有点像那个节目,制片人会给你鼓劲,告诉你该怎么做,还会操纵你。所以他们过来跟我说,嘿,你已经来了。还不如让它更有趣,对吧?不如看看会发生什么。我说,好吧,当然。他们说,他在那边的游泳池里。你为什么不直接游到他身边,和他聊一聊,然后看看你的想法。我就说,好吧,我来吧。(笑)

艾玛:很好。

埃尔西:所以在我的梦里,我游到这个男人身边,我说了这些话。我说,“那么……你有多喜欢万圣节?””(笑)。

艾玛:那是你的开场线。我喜欢它。

埃莉莉:那就是梦想结束的地方。而且我就像为此感到骄傲。我不得不在播客上告诉它因为,就像在我的潜意识中一样,我仍然知道这就像兼容性的限定。

艾玛:是的。如果有人喜欢,哦,我真的不喜欢万圣节或假期,我就像哦,稍后见。我现在要去游泳了。(笑)

埃尔西:对,就像硬传球。让我们搬回家décor部分。(笑)好吧,根据我的大纲,你的灾难先来。上面写着艾玛的厨房,到底发生了什么!噢,不!

艾玛:这就是大纲所说的。(笑)

埃莉莉:所以如果你都记得像几个月前的一对夫妇,Emma告诉我们她如何订购一个新的柜台,她的梦想,隐藏的垃圾可以让她的梦想,如隐藏的微波炉。

艾玛:是的。我们从这里开始。你们首先要知道我有一个梦想,我的梦想就是在我的厨房里藏一个垃圾桶。如果你有这种感觉,哦,我家里一直都有,那太棒了。对你有好处。我从来没遇到过这种事。我真的很想要一个。不管怎样,藏垃圾是我的梦想。

埃玛:这是一个伟大的梦想。

埃尔西:在我看来,这是一个可以实现的梦想。我并没有想要在我的房子里找到一个地下游泳池或者任何类似的东西这是一个可以实现的梦想。我是这么想的。所以我去了一家大卖场。我不知道你能猜到哪一个,去了一家大卖场。(笑)所以我测量了我的墙。我有一堵墙可以装下这个。我可以在我家的厨房里再加几个橱柜。所以我量了量,我想,我可以藏两个垃圾桶。一个用来放垃圾,一个用来回收,然后我可以再放一个柜子里面有一个内置的微波炉孔可以放微波炉。 And I was so excited about it. Because I was like, it’s going to be so streamlined. I won’t have this microwave sitting out. You won’t see my trash. It’s going to be amazing. I was so excited, SO excited.

埃莉莉:额外的柜台你要做的咖啡吧,对吗?

艾玛:是的。是的。所以我无法获得匹配的台面,因为他们不再销售那些特定的台面。我本可以得到类似的东西,但我刚刚决定和屠夫块一起去,因为我认为我想要对比,它可能真的很好。所以我订购的橱柜就像振动筛风格一样。这真的是非常标准的。是的,我在12月12日12月下令他们回来了。(笑)我知道该日期,我可能会因为你的订单号来吟唱,因为大约是1月底,我开始呼吁检查我的订单,你知道这是一年疯狂的一年。这是covid。不同的供应线和不同的东西有很多像延迟。 And I am I get it like I’m not unrealistic. I don’t mind a delay. We also had some bad weather in southwest Missouri, I think around late February or March. So that could have been a delay, too. But I just kept calling. I would call at least once a week at first. And then I started calling like every other day. I’ve definitely called the store more than 20 times. And they were getting to a place where I could tell like that certain people kind of knew who I was. And, you know, there’s a lot of employees. So I didn’t expect anyone to remember me each time or anything like that. But, you know, I would have kind of a little spiel of I ordered these cabinets December 12th. Here’s my order number. I’m just checking to see when they’re going to arrive. I’m trying to coordinate with my contractor who has to pick them up for me because I don’t have a truck and I’m very pregnant. I can’t get these myself, so I need to know when they’re going to arrive. And I just kept getting the runaround. And finally they did arrive and I was so excited. Call my contractor. He goes to pick them up for me and then he calls me from the store and he’s like, I don’t think these are right. These are like wall cabinets. They’re like nine feet tall. I know you said it was like hidden trash and a microwave thing. This doesn’t seem correct. So then I go to the store and check and sure enough, they’re not the right cabinets. They were like, well, we’re going to have to reorder them. And we don’t know how long the shipping will take again. And in my mind, I’m like, I really wanted to get this done before I give birth in early June. And I ordered them in December and I thought that was enough time, but I was wrong. (laughs) So I just, you know, was like, never mind, just give me a refund and I’m just going to let my dream of the hidden trash die for now. (laughs) So it was a sad, sad day. I didn’t cry at the store, but I kind of felt like it. I was was like “awww…” very defeated.

埃莉莉:我会哭。第二次这样做,这并不是这么糟糕。喜欢,这真的很傻。

艾玛:不,会解决的。我觉得我花了很多时间,而且我已经提前为他们付了钱,你知道,就像我一直在等,一直在打电话。我当时真的很想,好吧,推迟一下。我明白了。我明白,但我们太无理取闹了。然后当他们最终推出了错误的产品,就像这样,我甚至,我不能再这样做了。所以我得把钱退了再想别的办法。我不想,我不想在我儿子出生后有任何承包商在我的房子里,因为我只是想做一些睡眠训练,比如学习母乳喂养。我只是不想一直有人进出我的房子。(笑)所以我只是想保护它。

埃莉莉:我认为休息几个月很聪明。我的意思是,你有余生更新,你只有几个月的婴儿婴儿,所以......

艾玛:对,所以我只是想保护这段时间。所以我隐藏的垃圾梦暂时搁置了。这很可悲。这不是一个代价高昂的错误。我确实拿到了全额退款,但这只是一次非常不幸,非常随机的事件。真不敢相信没成功。但OK。(笑)现在我们休息一下,听听我们的赞助商说些什么。

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好的,所以当我准备这一集时,我发短信给我的丈夫杰里米并说,我曾经做过的最糟糕的翻新错误是什么?他发了回来说:“你买了错误的房子。”(笑)我认为这是一个很好的烧伤。

艾玛:(笑)是的,他烧了你。

埃尔西:是的,没有什么比买错房子更好的了。这是第四十二集。如果你是第一次收听,想听这个故事,这一集的名字是“哎呀,我又搬家了”,讲的是为什么我在冠状病毒感染期间搬了两次家。回顾去年,我还是不明白我们是怎么这么快做到的。我认为我最昂贵的错误实际上这不是我的错误,但发生在我身上的错误,我想是我们讨论过的地板错误我想可能是在三十集范围内的某个地方?我会尽量把它写在节目笔记里。但是当我们搬到第一个隔离室的时候,我们不得不把地板做了两次,因为它们真的很糟糕,我们付了两次钱,很多人给我写信说,你应该得到退款。就像,我知道这似乎是你应该喜欢的,“应该”能够做的事情。但我认识我的承包商,他经常带着他的孩子去上班。我不会那么做的。 And it wasn’t the right choice, like, I promise. And sometimes it’s not, you know, so the right choice for us was just to hire a new company and have them come in and do it quickly. And it was worth it in the end when we sold our house. I think we got the money back for that. I mean, it’s hard to like, really, like, quantify that, but I don’t regret it. I think that sometimes like being able to pivot and just make the best-informed decision you can in the middle of a renovation is a good quality to have just to sort of like fix something if you know that it’s going to need to be fixed eventually.

艾玛:是的,我要说的,因为我记得你向我展示照片,就像发短信给我的照片。但是要告诉我们一点就像它看起来一样的样子,因为我觉得有些人可能会听到,也许就像也许我会刚刚离开它,就像这样,就像那样,就是那个选择,你知道吗?

埃莉莉:是的。好的,所以当我们的承包商送我们时,它都开始了,如,高度编辑,如吹灭照片。就像他们看起来像他们被编辑一样,就像一个时尚的应用程序,承包商不这样做。这是我们的第一个警告标志。I was like, let’s go over there and look at these in person when I saw it, because it just felt kind of like a warning and it wasn’t in, like it wasn’t repairable because it wasn’t in one part of the house. It was all throughout in all different rooms. And there was multiple problems. There was problems where it didn’t get sanded down all the way. There was problems where there was pooling. Like the best choice was to re, like sand down the whole thing and start over, because we definitely explored a possibility of just repairing. And it’s possible to repair like a bad section of hardwood, like you can tape it off and just sand down that section and just re-stain that section. But even that is kind of an expert-level job. And when someone’s just, like, not even sanded correctly, you don’t really, like, trust that that’s going to happen correctly, like the repair. So anyway, it was actually not that big of a deal. Like it wasn’t the most crushing thing of my life, but it was kind of just frustrating. And it’s definitely a story that happens if you do renovating at some point you’ll feel like something just did not get done right. And you know that for whatever reason, you’re not getting your money back for that you have the choice of redoing it or living with it. And you can do either one you choose. It’s a privilege even to just like have the option. And yeah, a lot of times earlier in our first homes, we didn’t have that. And it definitely is fixable either way. Like sometimes it’s just like covering up and not looking at it anymore. And I don’t think every house has to be like, perfect, you know what I mean?

艾玛:不,不。

Elsie:房子有缺陷和问题以及没有出现的事情,也是如此。

艾玛:肯定的。

埃尔西:好吧,告诉我们你代价高昂的错误。我感到很兴奋。

埃玛:好吧,我犯的“昂贵错误”其实更像是我犯的错误,因为基本上,我太小气了,所以这是“不要试图以便宜的方式做事”的教训,因为那样你最终会花更多的钱。我们称之为度假屋的二楼,但那是我住的房子。

埃尔西:从现在起就叫它你的家吧。

艾玛:是的,我的房子。是的,我有点像打电话给假日房子。

埃莉莉:我可以叫它,我的度假别墅。

艾玛:我的度假别墅。是的,我永远的假期家,虽然我不认为我永远不会住在这里,但我要在这里住了一段时间。反正。楼上有两间卧室和一个小浴室楼上,我最近在那里移动了我的家庭办公室。

Elsie:这是一个非常小的浴室。(笑)

埃玛:对,浴室很小。(笑)

Elsie:就像你的头 - 我五英尺四,你的头部接触天花板,天花板就像拱形到一个点,我的头部接触着拱形的中间。

埃玛:太奇怪了……

elsie:这是可爱的小。这就像一个古怪的老房子,喜欢,奖金浴室。很奇怪。无论如何,可爱。

艾玛:这是那些就像可笑的怪癖之一,但它仍然有用,但它很搞笑。

埃莉莉:告诉他们关于门口。

艾玛:哦,是的。是的。当我们买它时,浴室没有门,我们没有真正注意到它首先因为我们只是,我不知道,你只是看房子,只是那样的方式......

Elsie:它只是找不到的东西。所以艾玛联系了前任所有者Aand,她想也许当他们在楼层楼时,门也会被取消。

艾玛:我就像,也许它在某个地方的车库里?也许,你知道,或者也许有一些故事,或者有些洞察力他们可以与我分享。所以我联系了他们,因为我们仍然知道......你知道,我之前得到了他们的邮件,我会拿它,你知道,那种东西。他们就像,不,我们只是没有门。所以我就像,哦,好的。哦,所以无论如何,我们把门放在上面,但我不会撒谎。我们穿上的门必须是定制的,他们做得很好。但它就像是一个奇怪的......

埃尔西:我觉得很可爱。

艾玛:...三角形法国门。它是可爱的,它的功能,但它很奇怪。

埃莉莉:它就像用尖头三角形顶部的法国门,因为这是门口的形状,它就像,拉出来。

艾玛:这太奇怪了。

elsie:好的,对不起。所以请告诉你昂贵的错误。

艾玛:是的。所以楼上确实有暖气和从通风口出来的空气,但它没有回流,这意味着空气被吹到那里,但它并没有真正的循环方式。所以如果夏天冷空气被吹到那里,那里就会变热。如果热空气在冬天被吹起,那里就会变冷。所以这里的冬天和夏天都不太舒服,因为我们有四个季节,天气会很热,也会很冷。这是宜居。就像我从来没有经历过水管结冰一样,但真的非常不舒服。不管怎么说,我在想我们能不能增加通风口或者,你知道,我们能做些什么。基本上最好的解决办法就是做小劈叉,在这个国家的一些地区,在世界的一些地方,小劈叉是很常见的。如果你不知道它是什么,它基本上就像一个窗式装置,但它可以加热或空调,它不会挂在窗户上。 It sits on a wall. And yeah, it’s kind of like a mini air conditioning heating unit, but you can see it all the time. So I was like, all right, we’ll get some mini splits. Great. So I just go on one of the big box stores websites, pick out some mini splits and have my contractor, who I usually use, do them. And he did kind of tell me he’s like, you know, I don’t really do HVAC type stuff. I don’t really do heating and cooling, you know, but I was like, oh, it’ll be fine. How hard can this be? Like, it kind of said on the website that it was like DIY. So I was like, it’ll be fine, you know? So that was like three thousand dollars to buy the units, have them installed and then a kind of a year went by because I wasn’t living in the house, so I just didn’t use them very often. And then when I did move in, I pretty quickly discovered that they didn’t work. They would turn on, they had electricity, but they didn’t blow hot or cold air. So I was like, OK, I need to get these repaired, I guess. And they’re less than a year old. So I call around and mini splits are just not very common where I live. So I literally had one contractor who was like, “I guess I’ll look at them. But this isn’t really the kind of thing I like to work on”. (laughs) I was like Ok, well, I’ll call you back if I’m desperate, but I get it. You’re kind of telling me you just don’t want to do it. So I finally use a place that they did a great job, but they are kind of more expensive. I was trying to avoid it and they were like – they tried a bunch of things to repair them, but they were unable to repair it. So I had to buy new mini splits and had them installed. And so the original ones t was like three thousand dollars. Like I said, the new ones are like eight thousand dollars. And I had them installed. And they were great, but those first three thousand dollar ones just couldn’t be repaired. And it was just like, OK, I shouldn’t have, I should have just went with the more expensive HVAC place in the first place. But I was just trying to save some money and I thought it would be fine. But I was wrong. (laughs) So my bad.

埃尔西:现在很难知道哪些东西是值得挥霍的。你想听听我犯过的最大的错误吗?

艾玛:这是最大的,最昂贵还是最大的买错的房子?

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Elsie:所以我最大的错误是我们第一次搬到纳什维尔时,这是我们的第一个大装修。So I really didn’t have — I felt at the time that I had a lot of renovation experience because we had done some renovating of like our work houses and a tiny bit on my own house — but I really didn’t have the experience I thought I had at that time, just put it that way. So we were moving in and it’s like a lot of pressure because the house was like full of like there was like carpet in the bathrooms and it just had, like, a lot of like Grandma Grandpa features that I was excited to sort of like get rid of. So we ripped out all the carpet and then we kind of just started like gutting bathrooms and stuff. And this is my biggest mistake I ever made. I gutted all the bathrooms in the house and the kitchen all at once, but I didn’t fully know how much it would cost or have a plan of how I would put them back together. So I’m admitting something really, really dumb here. (laughs) But it was a great learning experience, like fast forward six years and I feel like I got to like a college education off of that house because I had to go through a lot to get it put back together. It took a lot longer than I thought it would. We were renovating for about two years. We lived like we were totally moved in to our main bedroom without a bathroom for I think close to a year. You know, it took a very long time, you know, because every little thing is an appointment. You know, it’s like a shower glass door appointment, you know. Yeah, there’s appointments for everything. And at the time, I didn’t really know that I would have contractors come in and I would be like, I want to redo this whole bathroom, like this picture from Pinterest. And they would be like, great, I’m never going to call you back. (laughs) Because I don’t feel like you’re going to be able to communicate with me.

艾玛:“我不能用这个。”

Elsie:我认为这是一个积极的是,我学会了在一个非常小的预算中创造真正独特的房间,因为我就像我一样,我可以怎么做到这一点?因为我只是希望它再次居住。它到了这一点。但显然下行的是,它比需要的压力更加压力,如果我会像两个浴室一样做,那么明年就可以做到这一点,这并不是有趣。所以这是我的遗憾。这就是为什么我认为当我们搬入我们现在的当前家时,我们现在的生活在我们现在的生活中,很多人都不明白为什么它为我们花了我们这么长时间才能翻新它。这是因为我现在有生活经历。当我没有办法将它恢复在一起或计划的计划时,我不仅要撕掉了我的厨房。

艾玛:是的,你真的是,这是一个正常的速度。我以前所做的是疯狂的速度。

elsie:对。我做了很多错误。与这个房子一起,就像我们像我们的米色饰边一样生活两年,我喜欢。也许这太长了。从技术上讲,我可以自己画出所有的修剪。从技术上讲,你知道,我可以通过房间做它的房间,但我知道,我们将在几年内完成。而且我有点在我不在乎我们首先在拼图的中间或拼图外面做的一点。我只是在乎我们,如,享受我们的生活 - 我们正在努力的整个时间,你知道我在说什么。

埃玛:对,你不会有两个月没有厕所,还有小孩什么的。

elsie:绝对没有。我将享用我的九十码按摩浴缸,直到它被撕掉的那一天,所以。让我们甚至不用担心。

埃玛:不妨,为什么不呢?

埃莉莉:是的。好的,所以我很兴奋,因为我们现在要在问题中有一个电话。

打电话者:你好!这么多年来,您的室内设计风格是怎么保持不变的?

埃尔西:我喜欢这个问题,因为我认为很容易看到我们这些年是如何变化的,但可能不容易看到我们保持不变的方式。所以我写下了我的一些想法。所以我一直喜欢历史悠久的住宅,也一直喜欢中世纪的住宅。我在密苏里州的第一个家是一个有历史意义的家。我想博客上最先出现的都是历史悠久的房屋,然后我就住在自己的世纪中叶的房子里。我一直都和这两种风格的房子有联系。我也一直很喜欢颜色,虽然最喜欢的颜色,会一直变化。我一直都很喜欢黄色和绿色。所以即使在我最初的家,也有黄色和绿色。另一件事是对预算DIY的热爱,我总是喜欢交易。 I will always love a thrifted find. I think at a time when you can, like, build your own. I think that that’s very special and I’m proud that we’re still doing it, even though, like, maybe technically we don’t have to do like I want to and I enjoy it and it’s fulfilling. Collin and I are doing like this DIY in my, like my office that’s by the front door, you know, and we’re doing like scalloped trim. It’s going to be so cute.

艾玛:是的,那很酷。

埃尔希:是的。另一件事是对Etsy和复古口音的热爱。我一直都有。自从我发现Etsy,我就一直很喜欢它。我认为这是最好的购物网站。这是惊人的。我会一直在那里买东西,希望能一直买到我死。你呢,艾玛?你是如何保持不变的?

艾玛:所以有一件事是我倾向于真正喜欢那种高对比度或墙壁或类似艺术。

埃莉莉:你这样做!艾玛喜欢,黑色和白色。

Emma: Yeah, black and white or just kind of like I don’t know because I do like a calm room with neutrals, but somehow I always end up kind of gravitating more towards high contrast things and I’m still doing it in my house right now. Like I tend to be adding things that are a little bit more high contrast. So that, and then one thing that’s like this is kind of minor. Like I don’t think people would like to think of me in this way, but it’s just something that is true, I guess I don’t know — is I’ve always kind of liked the 70s, including wicker. Like I had this, like, big wicker chair in my first home years ago. And I still really like integrating, like, little pieces like that still. I’m not really very like boho anymore, and I don’t know if I ever was, but I just have always loved the seventies. Something about it just seems very like free spirit and like fun.

elsie:mmhmm,我也是。我刚开始思考萤火虫车道!(笑)

艾玛:还没有看到过。

埃莉莉:哦,我的上帝。每个人都看到它就像Uhhuh!房子,它就像如此陈词滥调七十年代像集合设计。这是令人难以置信的。她为她的车骑了一辆大型巴士。这是令人难以置信的。

艾玛:很好。

埃尔西:真不敢相信杰里米和我一起看了那个节目。整个事情。那是一辆破车。(笑)好吧,是的。我也喜欢70年代,但我不认为我一直喜欢。我有点像玛莎·斯图尔特,我最初喜欢的家居设计是玛莎·斯图尔特的书,那是在21世纪初。

艾玛:如果问题是你是如何改变的?我会说我觉得我的风格实际上已经成熟了很多。就像我对传统一样的更感兴趣或者像传统一样感兴趣,也想你和玛莎斯图尔特一样的东西,更像是那样的东西,几乎像一个小比例。我更喜欢那个东西。也喜欢历史,如不同的时代。我想我对所有这些都有更多的开放,而不是我最初。所以我会考虑增长。(笑)

埃尔希:肯定的。是的。是的。我喜欢预科生的房间。是的。它来自于我对酒店的热爱。好吧,这是艾玛的最后一周,因为她正式开始休产假了。下周阵亡将士纪念日,我们会放一周假,再下一周我会开始我的夏季特辑——艾玛的免费特辑。别给我发恶意邮件说你有多想念艾玛。她将在八月份回来。 I’m going to do my best all summer long, so I have a lot of fun I have planned and I just wanted to share a little preview. One of the first episodes is How to Spend a weekend in Nashville. I’ve wanted to do this for a long time, but I was waiting until things were different with covid, because you know, encouraging tourism, whatever. But there’s so many amazing things in Nashville and I know a lot of people come here for a couple of days, definitely one of our frequent questions, so that’ll be a fun episode and then I have one about surviving a major renovation. So that one’s going to be with Laura from our team because she has been surviving a major renovation recently, like living without a kitchen for several months. We are going to have our mom on as a guest this summer, which is has been requested for a long time. And she’s excited to come on. We’re going to do an episode about creative childhoods and like secrets of how she raised us to be creative adults. So I’m excited about that. And then I have my: how to Nancy Meyers your home episode that I’ve been researching for for several months. I’ve almost made it through the entire Nancy Meyers collection. So that is going to be a fun episode. We’re going to have a fun summer and then, yeah, Emma will be back in August. So do you want to say anything for your goodbye Em?

艾玛:再见,我会想念你,我会像其他人一样听播客。

埃莉莉:哦,你愿意吗?

艾玛:哦,是的。我拿走了我的母乳或我要做什么的时候,我会做什么。(笑)

埃尔西:哦,也许你的宝宝可以在秋天出现在播客上,他可以制造一点噪音。(笑)

艾玛:我肯定会在某些时候他会的意愿!嘈杂的外表似乎是不可避免的。非常感谢倾听。我们非常感谢您的评论。每次我们都看到你在社交媒体上分享我们的播客,它真的,真的确实有助于我们成长。所以谢谢。如果您有疑问,可以给我们发电子邮件。只需在podcast@abeautfifulmess.com发送电子邮件给我们,或者您可以留给我们一个语音邮件,我们可能会在播客上放在播客。和那个热线为417-893-0011。

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